For MARRIED COUPLES ONLY
It has
been discovered that men are capable of having sex and enjoying it at any
opportune time and place. It is so easy for men to do so because of their
physiological make up.
Men have
been said to be like a helicopter when it comes to sex. They are easily
aroused, and can taxi, and take off like a helicopter, without a runway.
Therefore,
for men, sex can be said to be an anytime affair without prior intent.
However,
men still have a time that makes sex most suitable for them.
Experts
in this field have said that males’ best sex time is in the morning.
According
to sex therapist, Dr. Arlene Goldman, co-author of Psychology Today Here to
Help: Secrets of Sexual Ecstasy, “Many men are on their horniest first thing in
the morning.”
Though
you may not feel like it, doing it in the morning can be amazingly hot for you
as well, even as a woman.
Your
man’s best time for sex is in the morning due to a biological reason that is
known as testosterone.
After a
night’s sleep, the level of testosterone peaks. And testosterone is a leading
contributor to sexual feelings in men. Testosterone is a steroid hormone that
stimulates the development of male secondary sexual characteristics.
Apart
from this, most men wake up with fully aroused body because blood circulation
to the penis increases overnight.
But men
don’t look down at the rod in the morning, thinking “Oh! That’s just my junk
doing its thing.”
Rather,
he sees an erection, and wants to put it to use, instead of letting it “be at
peace” or deflate.
What is
on his mind is to strike the iron while it is hot. So you’ve got to understand
why he is ever-ready the more in the morning for sex.
And you don’t have to spoil the fun for
him by closing up. Rather, you should take time to learn a few tricks on how
you can make the day a memorable one for him, while you also take a bit of the
action.
You will
be surprised about how much fun will get out of such an early morning exercise,
especially when you do not have the luxury of jogging around.
So, spare
him the fun of that good morning sex. It will help him to maintain sanity in
the face of temptations (especially from the secretary or the tea lady) as he
goes about his job in the office or around in the town.
Morning
sex is not all about him, you can also derive great fun from it.
In most cases, especially when you’ve not learnt
the techniques of enjoying the morning sex, sex in the morning is the farthest
thing on your mind.
Thus,
your man may be highly criticised for feeling like it in the morning,
especially for the religious mind that wants to wake up doing the first thing
with her God, that is, prayer and praying. To such a one, sex in the morning
becomes a sin or a taboo.
But when
you have learnt how to enjoy the “good morning” sex, you stand to derive great
fun from it as well. According to a therapist,
“When a
man has higher testosterone, and he’s well rested, he has more energy during
sex and that energy will make him last longer for the pleasure of his
woman”
Furthermore,
it is also a great way of keeping him thinking about you all day long instead of
flirting around in the office.
So, find
out ways of banishing those unsexy “I just woke up” feelings so that you can
enjoy the good morning sex.
One way
to help you play along is to fresh up a bit. It makes you feel like it, stay
alert and ready to get in the mood.
According to Goldman, you can tell him
before the action starts you give him 30 seconds to get ready for some
mind-blowing sex. You can then enter the bathroom to get refreshed and take
care of whatever may be making you feel “unsexy.”
Position that make morning sex enjoyable
for women
Since
women may not have lots of energy for sex in the morning just because their
partners have, couples should adopt positions that are easy, but still make
hitting the right spots in her a topmost priority.
For
example, spooning is an ideal morning position according to sex counsellor,
Trina Read, author of “Till Sex Do Us Part”. Many people sleep in the spooning
position, and thus make it easy for him to fondle the breasts, and also touch
her clitoris.
Another position you can try is “man on his
side, woman on her back, “with her legs over his hips to have him enter you”.
In this position, your bodies will form a “t” shape.
This
position is helpful if you have not brushed your teeth yet, because you are not
facing each other, according to Read. It also puts him in at the perfect angle
to hit her G spot with ease.
Other positions that also make the woman to
relax while the man is doing the energy sapping workout will definitely assist
the woman to respond to the morning sex the more, without the feeling of
tiredness.
The
previous write-up on sex positions in this column will provide you with guides
on positions you can experiment with, till you discover which one will serve
the best interest of both of you — pleasure.
It is a
good way of saying ‘good morning’ to each other, especially where you have been
picking quarrel over who should first say ‘good morning’. It’s amazing what
couples quarrel about at times. So, don’t think it’s funny.
There is a magic in an early morning sneak
attack on him
An early
morning sex attack on your husband could be highly rewarding, and a special
surprise package for him, once in a while, or on special occasions such as
wedding anniversary, his birthday, Valentine’s Day, or to end a quarrel. It
will drive him to the peak of appreciation you may better imagine.
Surprise
him by waiting for him till he enters the shower, then position yourself naked
on the edge of the sink, or the door, or on the bed.
When he
pulls back the shower curtain, or opens the bathroom or bedroom door, he will
be thanking God for you for understanding how to be creative in giving him
sexual pleasure.
Sure bet:
an all day thought about you that will drive him to his wits end of nice acts,
including a gift of a lifetime. I can assure you he will definitely reciprocate
as soon as possible.
An early
morning sex attack on him is one coup for which you will not face the firing
squad. Rather, it will earn you extra credit for being a worthy friend and
lover of your spouse.
A trial
will bring you great reward both in kind and cash. I’m sure you will feed me
back without sharing your reward with me.
Meanwhile,
I’m sorry I have to go for now, it‘s almost morning time as I write, and I
don’t want to be left out of the morning action today, due to tiredness. I love
to be treated to that early morning
attack.
Do have a
tension free day today
Cheers
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